singles, love, romance. Online dating

First simply SIGN UP
You are asked to fill in a short form, some parts of the form need the “Required Fields” sections filled in.
If you do not fill in the “Required Fields” then you will not be able to continue registering.
The rest of the form asks for details which you do not have to fill in , any details you do elect to fill in are NOT viewable by any other members.

Automatically there is a checked box under the section: “Yes send me emails of news & updates” you may want to uncheck this box, but leaving it checked will ensure you receive a newsletter from us containing updates on new members etc.

Once form is completed, then press on the section: Submit I agree to terms of service.

You will then see a new page, explaining the need to collect your email from singles-love.co.uk to verify your membership.
Inside the email you receive is a link which you just click on, this will open up our site and allow you too log on with the user name and password you elected to have in the initial SIGN UP FORM.

Once logged in, from the left hand side menu select “ place a personal ad”
Fill in as much of the form as you wish, obviously the more details you insert the more chance of a successful response to your ad.
After you have finished entering your details etc, you have the opportunity to add a photograph which is advisable as this will produce more response to your advert.
You will notice the Maximum Pixel Size: 600w x 600h, do not worry if your photograph you are downloading is larger or smaller, we will alter it to meet these requirements.
If your picture is larger you will receive a message, ignore this message anytime it appears and continue to bottom of form and click on UPDATE AD.

Congratulations, you now have full use of the site.

WHAT TO PUBLISH FOR BEST RESULTS

The description (profile as its called) you publish on any singles site works best if your honest, describe exactly what type of person you are, your likes and dislikes.
Add as much information as possible, don’t be afraid to add humour and sincerity to your description, as other singles like yourself will appreciate not having to search endlessly for you, they will find you more easily and ultimately contact you.

The saying goes, “a picture is worth a thousand words” so use this to your advantage, place a photograph which is clear, bright, shows you at your best and portrays your inner self. Sorry but in mine and most others opinion, publishing a dull, hung over, not very pleasant photograph is not going to attract many people to approach you.

What else can you do to project the sort of person you really are? Stand out from the crowd and look irresistible, even if you are shy do not portray this, be forward and confident in any approach that may develop.

To search out your dream man or woman, try “advanced search” from the menu, this allows you to eliminate certain criteria’s in a person that you like or dislike. Examples being: you want children do they?
Do they smoke?
Is their build right for you?
And if they have filled in the extra details section about themselves, are they a compatible star sign with you? (you filled the extra details section in yourself, didn’t you!)
By using the advanced search you can see the advantages of not having to look through every singles description only to find their incompatible with you in some area.

Going back to the subject of shyness, most singles are shy in away and tend not to be able to communicate very well at first. So on first contact it appears very difficult to find words to say, I find it helps to pickup on a sentence within the first conversation, example being: they mention sport, so ask more about what types of sport they like and do they go to sporting venues often etc etc.
Then pickup on another sentence, they mention pets, so again ask the question what pets they like and don’t like.
By asking a question within a communication, the next time you hear from them they have answered all your questions about themselves and have without their knowledge included more areas where you can ask more questions. So after 2 or 3 communications between you, the shyness has disappeared and you appear to the other person to be a very good talker and compatible with each other.